so lemme get this straight, when a kid gets upset and hurt and makes loud noises or throws a tantrum they’re misbehaving and need to be disciplined and punished, shamed and abandoned for what they did
when a grown ass adult gets upset and throws a tantrum, bullies and emotionally tortures other people, abuses their power and authority, uses violence to get their way, they mostly get whatever they want and everyone needs to understand they’re upset and need a lot of patience and empathy from everyone
it’s almost like adults get to be children and children don’t get to be children.